- Linda Ellis
Bringing toys into the bedroom
Even just starting the discussion about sex toys with your partner can be nerve racking. Some partners are open and some are not and some need help to see how amazing they are. That is why communication is so important. As a dude talking may not be your forte but if you want a amazing sex life you are going to have to talk! Take it slow don't assume anyone knows what you are thinking. If this is a difficult or sensitive conversation, bring it up slowly. Perhaps you need to gently help your partner understand what their hang ups are and why they have them. Explore, go slowly and have fun is the name of the game.
Where do I start?
There are many toys out there and lots of choice. To play together alone or to do something new like prostate stimulation. You don't have to choose, you can do it all, but figure out where you want to start. Also toys are not one size fits all. We are all different and feel things differently so different toys work for different men. It's all about having a mind blowing orgasm after all.
We talked to the sex experts at Hispassion.com so what do the experts say?
We asked and this is what they said. Think of sex and masturbating as pretty much essential to your mental and physical health. You shouldn’t be embarrassed about sex or talking about it so why should you be about toys to enhance your enjoyment. You should invest in whatever will make sex feel better, more intense, more pleasurable and ultimately make you happier.
Buying sex toys
Men can often be embarrassed about buying sex toys, but they really don't have to be. Gone of the days where sex toys have a weird seedy image. Today they are a necessity. Also don't be afraid to try new things like prostate stimulation. All men have a prostate and when its massaged it feels amazing. It has nothing to do with sexuality it has to do with how it feels.
Sex toys heighten sensations
Sex toys are also fun to use with your partner. They heighten feelings and sensations and make you more adventurous. So the answer to the question where do you start with men's sex toys, is start where you feel comfortable and go from there. You don't have to do everything on day one.